Everyone's being suggestive, like we "need" to do things for this older lady I'm supposedly supposed to have a relationship with, like in her 60s she's a little kid or a young adult like me, instead.  They think we need to get on her level and understand her.  She was just here to have a "relationship" with me in a regard, and all this chaos ensues.  She has it good in many ways, this may seem like an improvement, but maybe some things just aren't.  These people are being inappropriate and want to suck out her soul and say she's not even all that, to annoy me and hurt who she is.